“Oh, I wasn’t out last night. I was just at home watching reruns of Gossip Girl.”
Talaga lang ha.
When I checked my Facebook, I was surprised to see her status saying,
“[put name here] is so sleepy, just got home from last night’s partying with [put other friends name here].”
Lying is an abstract concept. Except that some people knows how to make it work to their own advantage.
Charing! Kung ano ang ibig sabihin nun, hindi ko rin alam. Hahaha! Maganda kasi pakinggan. Char.
Kahit ano pa man ang sabihin natin, ang pagsisinungaling ay masama. If you lie to your super duper closest friends, it’s the same thing as lying to an acquaintance. Yun nga lang, the damage is more bigger dun sa former.
Lahat naman tayo nagsisinungaling eh. Kung hindi ka man nakapagsinungaling over the last, let’s say, week, malamang puwede ka nang kapalit ni Mother Teresa para maging living saint.
My point is this. If you make a lie make sure kapag nalaman ito ng pinagsinungalingan mo ay meron ka nang magiging depensa. For instance, yung incident sa taas. If I found out you were lying where were you the night before, what would be the answer.
“Yeah, we went out, sinundo kasi nila ako dito sa bahay, nandun silang lahat eh, kaya nagpaalam na lang ako kay Nanay, buti na lang at pumayag kahit late na. I thought of inviting you but I know you slept early, baka maistorbo ko pa ang beauty rest mo.”
Oh di ba. Pasok sa banga. Ikaw pa ang na-guilty. Hahaha!
Unfortunately, my friend didn’t thought of that.
Anyway, make sure din na hindi ma-aaccess ng friend niyo ang pagsisinungaling niyo. Like dun sa nangyari , sa Facebook ko nabuking ang pagiging etchosera niya.
Next time, wag niyong i-announce sa Twitter or sa Facebook kung saan man kayo lumandi at baka magtampo yung friend niyo kung bakit di siya nasali. Just keep it to yourself, okay?
A lie is a lie. Excuse lang ng mga sinungaling ang white lie at fib. Pang-eetchos pa rin yun. Same degree pero sa damage lang nagkakaiba. Kung less damaging man ito, it doesn't matter. It’s the same thing pa rin dahil nagsinungaling ka.
Kung nasa sitwasyon man kayo na nabuking kayo sa pagiging etchosera niyo, don't forget to say Sorry.
And mean it. Huwag plastic. Non-biodegradable ito.
Pero you know what,
what if in the first place,
if you just tell the truth noh?
I’m sure mas okay yun.
5 comments:
Okay fine I lied! Hindi ako panget, maganda ako kahit chubby! ay ingna diay si Ereng beh krispy kremes lang imo 1 doz. na chaps na tong 1 ka matenggera judy ann na apil.
sabi ni manay Miriam Defensor Santiago... that was not a lie... that was a rhetoric! Cheka lang! Heheheheh
well, lying is an art.pero dapat consistent.
kapag may nagsinungaling sa akin at nasaktan talaga ako hindi na ako nagsasalita pa, mawawala na lang ako ng tuluyan sa buhay nya.
ako, i can't stand liars... importante sa akin ang honesty, ever.
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